Cooper Business School

Among all the causes of discord between partners, the most common by far is money.

The clash that may potentially cause a fight between spouses are many:

False expectations, lack of adequate family budget, misunderstandings, temptations and unnecessary purchases, indebtedness, machismo, etc.

There are many useful and practical advice that could be taken to resolve these conflict situations, such as:

Take time to organize your finances even make a budget between the two Avoid impulse purchases Be realistic and do not spend more than you earn Do not borrow high-risk investments allow a certain freedom in the budget Make an emergency fund Agree in large costs

However, discussions about money are a source far beyond mere disagreement over the handling of money in a marriage. We do not take anything with external changes if there is a problem, like a weed that is not uprooted, will emerge in the future.

Many couples are swept under the carpet the problem: selfishness.

It all begins when the men and women forget the original design of their relationship. It is as if they had begun to build a house with a plane and suddenly determined to continue building without him. It is a formula for failure.

When they decided to spend a lifetime together, there was a joint project that was going to perform as a team. This means that individual desires are subject to that agreement. Everything is done to succeed as a family unit rather than two individuals living under one roof.

This necessarily implies that both must be willing to sacrifice their own interests to ensure that the project of living together they began to fail.

When we focus on our individual needs and look for ways to fill them on our own we undermine the foundations of the joint project.

Jesus said, “more blessed to give than to receive.” Although it goes against our human logic, we are blessed to worry about the good of others before our own supply.

When a couple includes this great truth, cease to have problems in all areas relevant to their relationship, including money management.

The best way to do this successfully is approaching God together and learn from him how it works that kind of love we all yearn to experience.

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